I originally came to the UK from Hungary, and like many people who've made a life far from home, I've learned a lot about what really matters: connection, trust, and feeling understood.
Early in my career I realised that so many of the problems people bring to therapy — anxiety, low self-esteem, relationship conflict — have their roots in how we relate to others and how we feel about ourselves intimately. Sex and relationships sit at the heart of our wellbeing, yet they're the things we find hardest to talk about.
That's what drives my work. I wanted to create a space where people could talk openly about the things that really matter to them — desire, intimacy, confidence, connection — without shame and without judgment. Over the past fifteen years, I've worked with hundreds of individuals and couples, and it remains the most rewarding work I can imagine.
I work from three locations — my practice in Epsom, Surrey, the City of London at Snow Hill, and the West End on Wimpole Street — as well as online. I see clients in the evenings and at weekends because I know how difficult it can be to fit therapy around a busy life.
I believe therapy should be practical, focused, and genuinely useful. You won't spend months talking in circles — you'll leave each session with something you can actually use.
Many of my clients tell me they felt at ease from the very first session. I create a warm, confidential space where you can say anything without fear of being judged. Nothing you tell me will shock me.
I don't just help you understand the problem — I equip you with real skills and personal development techniques that make a tangible difference. My clients take away tools they use long after our sessions end.
Whether you're working through something on your own or navigating difficulties as a couple, I tailor my approach to your situation. Many clients start individually and bring their partner in later, or vice versa.
I'm not the kind of therapist who sits in silence and nods. I'm warm, I'm honest, and I'll gently challenge you when it's helpful. You'll always know where you stand with me.
My work draws on established therapeutic approaches including CBT, psychosexual therapy, and relationship counselling techniques. I stay up to date with the latest research so you benefit from what actually works.
Three locations across Surrey and Central London, plus online sessions. Evenings and weekends available. I fit around your life, not the other way around.
I have particular experience and expertise in these areas, though I work with a wide range of sexual and relationship concerns.
I'm a Professional Member of the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT), the leading professional body for sex and relationship therapists in the UK. COSRT membership means I adhere to a strict code of ethics, maintain up-to-date training, and am subject to professional oversight.
I'm also an accredited sex educator through ACET UK, qualified to deliver relationships and sex education in schools. Over the years I've contributed to Cosmopolitan, the Men's Health Network, and appeared on ITV News as an expert on sexual and relationship issues.
“Em is a highly discerning, seasoned professional. For me, she is simply the best. A miraculous personality with charisma, yet compassionate and understanding.”— Renato Google Review
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